Today is the day: your personal Sex Academy is about to commence and, I must admit, I’m quite excited to see what you’ll make of it. Perhaps you’re thinking, “So what’s the idea – I’m supposed to think about sex and my own sexuality on a daily basis?” Well, yes, and as it has been proven, we do actually spend the best part of our day consciously or subconsciously thinking about sex and everything associated with ...
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Day 1
Write down your sexual needs!
Today is the day: your personal Sex Academy is about to commence and, I must admit, I’m quite excited to see what you’ll make of it. Perhaps you’re thinking, “So what’s the idea – I’m supposed to think about sex and my own sexuality on a daily basis?” Well, yes, and as it has been proven, we do actually spend the best part of our day consciously or subconsciously thinking about sex and everything associated with it. Just not mindfully, specifically and in a goal-driven manner. And that’s exactly where I would like to lead you: to a space in which you dedicate time to considering a fulfilled and fulfilling sex life – your sex life!
Making love – sex – is often described as one of the most beautiful leisure activities in the world. The term “leisure activity” alone provokes bad feelings in me, not the ones I need, the ones you need, to profoundly and positively think about your sexuality and your partners’. That’s why you’re here, to bring your sex life to a new level through clarity and positive thoughts that may have remained hidden until today.
Note down your sexual needs!
That’s how I started when I started thinking about my novel, The Sex Academy. What is it that I really want? What turns me on, what makes me horny? I was surprised by how little came spontaneously. And so, I started diving deeper – consciously, with clarity and a goal in mind. At times it was irritating, sometimes exciting but, mostly, it was incredibly empowering to let my thoughts flow and note them down. This was key to many of the profound ideas and insights into my own sexuality, my own sexual identity with all its light and dark sides. Yes, even and particularly dark sides, because that’s exactly where our, your secret urges for lust and ecstasy lie. Verbalize them, write them down the way I did and, most importantly: try them out, step by step.
Whether you’re faced with a mental block or not, read my novel, The Sex Academy – it was written for you!
Allow your thoughts to flow freely, without inhibitions, initially this is something you are doing entirely for yourself! This is your life, your sex life and freedom, and only you can grow it into inhibited lust and ecstasy. Allow your curiosity to be sparked, don’t edit yourself and just keep going and going – for yourself!
And perhaps you’ll feel like sharing thoughts about your sex life, and freely and trustingly discuss it – well, more like write about it, even though it will feel like a discussion within our community. If that’s the case, subscribe today and become part of our To Do Today Community – for a fulfilled and fulfilling sex life.
